House husband is not easy



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Being a househusband is not easy. When my wife was pregnant. I needed to stay to look after her. I knew she needed me. I had no choice but to stay even if that means leaving my job behind. This was never easy for me. I experienced a roller coaster emotion out of this season in my life. I felt less of myself, I became self-centered, I lost hopes, I was helpless, and got bored of my life being boxed in the four corners of our house. However overcoming all these negative feelings turned out to be exciting, fabulous and extraordinary life I have now.


Doing what I had done was considered to be something very special for me. As a husband I realized that I became more responsible and loving husband than I knew I could be. I learned to be forgiving, patient and gentle to my wife. It was terrifying for a husband to do all these without love. They said “You can never give something what you don’t have.” This is true when I became a Dad to my firstborn. Being a father to my daughter is a great responsibility. Doing all the household chores, looking after my baby and cooking for them brought so much joy and fulfillment for I knew I did my best to make them happy. And a smile on their faces was a great reward for being a househusband.

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  1. Fallen inlove with the wrong person is not easy too...

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    1. pray for the someone who fits in you,.mention ko na ba?

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  2. All your sacrifices will be worth it once your child grow up.

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  3. Yes it's not yet never tried yet hehe

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  4. Searching for the right is not easy too. :)

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  5. wooah, I need to learn many things in lifeee

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  6. Taking care of the family is a 24 hour duty. You will not receive any compensation nor credentials for it. But, the love and recognition from your family is enough and knowing they appreciate you will make you look forward to wake up everyday for them. You're a real man for sharing this. Thank you!

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  7. its a nice story, take good care of your wife.

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  9. you are the real MVP sir hahahaahaha! Ideal man, yes naman.

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  10. Yes its not easy... Your family truly proud of you...

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  11. nice2x i have some many things learn from this blog. thank you and keep it up

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  12. Whether you are a househusband or
    a career man, both of them are not an easy job to do. Same with your wife. What is important in a relationship, is you do your role and you work together as partners. Hindi pwedeng nagta trabaho si babae at sitting pogi naman si lalaki, or, nagta trabaho si lalaki at sitting pretty si babae. Bigyan nyo ang isat isa ng simple gift, just to appreciate each other. Kung si babae ang nagwo work, give her a massage, para naman mabawasan ang stress sa work. At ikaw naman bilang career woman, bilhan mo ng bagong brief si husband 😂. Simple acts of kindness and appreciation sa mga partner. Wag pabigat sa isat isa. Gawin at gampanan ang role bilang asawa.

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  13. Someday, i will ask you an advice sir . Thanks. Your blog is such a wonderful i've ever read. Hoping for the next one.

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  14. You're doing a great job... For sure your wife is so proud of you...

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